To all angry teenage girls: What is some advice you would give to your parents to make you more calm or happy?

I have a teenage daughter inclined toward anger. How would you like your parents to deal with you when you feel upset? ThanksTo all angry teenage girls: What is some advice you would give to your parents to make you more calm or happy?
This is an interesting question. I think you have to understand that they are angry, because they don't know what they want. Just what they don't want. So just remember what makes her freak out, and try to avoid those things.





Space is important too, show that you care and take an interest in her life, but let her come to you. You can hardly say ';Hi honey how was your day'; without them accusing you of meddling in their life, and not trusting them.





Once I was having a huge fight with my mom and in the middle of it she looked like she was about to scream, and she just yelled BOO, to break up the argument. It surprised me so much I started to laugh. The important thing is to cause a distraction, offer ice cream in the middle of a rampage, yell OLY OLY OXEN FREE, tell her that her hair looks pretty today. Just anything that can break her train of thought and remind her that you just want what is best.To all angry teenage girls: What is some advice you would give to your parents to make you more calm or happy?
Well, I am glad that you even notice your daughter's anger. My parents do not even care much if I am angry at something or not. They would totally think that I was crazy or something or I have some difficult personality. For me, I get angry when I am not happy with my parents' arrangement of things. I hope that they would ask me how I feel but they never do so. I always show up to them with big smiles when they get off work but they would just be so mean and start yelling and darken their faces when they are not happy. Common! I even hide my tough encounters from them and hope that they don't worry too much about it. I hate so much when my mom just pretends nothing happen and starts to treat me nicely afterward. That DOES NOT help alright! I hope that they find the time to understand what I want at the first place instead of just trying to making up for something later.
i think you should put the effort into talk to her but if she doesnt want to talk leave her be. Let her know your ready to talk when she is. Still stand strong with all the regular rules about curfew, phone and chores but if she needs the space leave her. As long as she knows that your always going to be there when she needs you i think it will be okay. sometimes a teenager just needs a good friend to listen other than her mother. I remember it was the age of detaching myself from family and starting to become my own person. dont blame yourself if she doesn't talk to you ether. like i said shes a teenager, she might be getting help from friends and she prolly doesn't want you to know all her business ether.
Let her be. whenever I'm pissed off i like to be left alone, don't ask if everything's okay, just let her go to her room and chill. Later maybe ask her if she'd like to go out with you maybe out to eat or shopping. But don't dwell to much on her anger, change the subject, ask if she'd like a break, a trip to a friends house or something. That's what i like my mom to do anyways.
ask what's wrong and really listen to what she has to say. just to be there in a helpful way, not always just yelling at her and telling her what to do but actually make it seem like you care about what's going on in her life and that you want to help.