I just need some advice about being married and in the military! please be serious...?

well. thats a tough one. Its going to be kind of hard to be married and not live together. that is why the military has a higher divorce rate than civilian life. there are benefits to being married though. you get more money and she gets health care. i know people who get married just for those alone. the downside is you always have to worry about Jody. He is the guy sleep with the wives, while the husbands are deployed or in the field. Its something we can't answer here. It has to be figured out by the two of you.I just need some advice about being married and in the military! please be serious...?
Well think of it this way. In a way it's good to be a part from each other for a while. What will happen to her when you deploy. I know totally different. Deployment is not by choice. but it does help getting used to time apart. Sometimes long distance relationships are the way worth the try!!!!


good luckI just need some advice about being married and in the military! please be serious...?
My mother was an army wife for just over 20 years. The thing that seemed to help her the most was the support and friendship of her fellow army wives. My dad had to travel alot in his position within the army and the other wives who were in the same boat all rallied around and supported each other. When one of the guys that dad worked with got injured and had to stay in hospital for a while his wife didn't have to cook a meal for about the first six weeks. There was a casserole or some other meal left on her doorstep by one of her fellow army wives.
What type of advice? Is it you or your spouse in the military? Was the military one in before you got married? If before, then you just have to adapt to the way things are run in the military. If you were married before the military, it is a whole new ballgame, and can be very stressful and difficult to accept the changes. I have been married for 5 years, and my husband joined while I was 6 months prego and we had been married for 2 years. I've come to accept how things work, but you have to constantly know in the back of your head that you can plan as much as you want, but the Army will mess up the best of your plans. There are several online support groups for spouses online that are really just to chat, vent, and get assistance with things you don't know. You can always contact me with questions about the Army, and I can try and help in whatever way I can.
Its good, you get housing instead of barraks, more money. But make sure the other is 100% faithful, because there is a HIGH divorce/cheating percentage in the military
What kind of advice? It's hard, no doubt. You'll end up in some place you never ever wanted to be and you'll have to make all new friends. You'll probably have to run a household alone. The good thing though, is that it will make you stronger than you ever thought you could possibly be. I'm really grateful for that. Saying goodbye never gets any easier, but it makes your time together that more special. It takes a strong women to marry a military man...and an ever stronger one to stick it out for 20 years. Welcome to the club, it's a hell of a ride and you'll love it!
ok, my sister and her husband were in the navy together, thats how they met, for the past 2 years she has been a stay at home mum now, and her husband only gets to see her every few months, they have a wonderful relationship, it will be hard, she has told me how much she misses my brother-in-law, but they get through it, just means they have a fantastic time when they see eachother, they make every second the best. you can do it, will get easier with time.
plenty of people get married while in the military! as long as you are truely willing to commit to the person and not fall into temptation, you should be fine. congrats and god speed!
Well, I used to be in the military and I can say that the only way a marriage would work is if you both have 100% trust in the other person.... There is going to be a lot of times that you two will be seperated, and this times can and will be for a long period of time. And the old saying is still true, ';out of sight out of mind';. If you understand that. There will be plenty of chances that this relationship could go wrong, and it would be in your best interests that you both know each other and are totally trusting of the other for this to work.
OK%26lt; so what is the question?
So what is her ';style'; of music? I find that funny
My wife and I were both in the Army. It worked out fine, we had no problems. Our daughter and her husband are both in the Navy. They make real good money and really like their jobs. Its worked out great for our familys. Good Luck
Good luck. Tough road to travel. Both of you need to be mature, dedicated and patient. If not, ......
Your question isnt really clear, but any one who fights for their country deserves a medal of honor.