Wednesday, April 28, 2010

If you could ask advice on anything what would it be? (10 for the best)?

what would you ask advice about? best answer gets 10 pointsIf you could ask advice on anything what would it be? (10 for the best)?
I would ask if I'm thinking too much into things. Like, over analyzing the situation. (being a girl, we do that alot)If you could ask advice on anything what would it be? (10 for the best)?
Sorry! I can't say! I'd be way too embarrassed to actually ask THAT question of anybody!
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  • My fianc茅e is considering joining the Navy, and I was looking for info on base life. Any advice?

    The schools on Navy bases are run by the local School District/County so you would have to find out when he gets his orders if it would be an option. Some states would require certification in their state so you will have to check the regulations for teachers. you can do substituting as an option at first if you can't get full time employment. The only exception to it being run by the county/School District if it is in overseas outside the US states and then it is run by Department of Defense. When you are married and he goes to his first command go to the FFSC - Fleet %26amp; Family Support Center, they offer employment fairs, Spouse 101 classes, budgeting classes, etc... That can offer you good information and help.





    Not always can you get into housing right on base or is all housing on base. Sometimes there is a wait up to 2 years to get into housing in some locations as they are remodeling it all. And in areas the majority of the military housing is actually off base. San Diego and Pearl Harbor are two examples of that. if you do get into housing then you are responsible for the care of the house, there is restrictions on what you can and can't do, how many pets, etc... You must pay for cable, internet and telephone, the rest they pay for under the BAH (housing allowance) he receives. In some places it is actually better to live in civilian housing because you can get more for what you are paying. If he is Jr Enlisted (E6 and below) and you do not have kids then you are limited to a 2 bedroom places. You might be able to find a 3 or 4 bedroom house off base for the same amount or if you find a 2 bedroom place you don't pay out as much in rent %26amp; utilities so you pocket the rest.





    In housing you are around other spouses whose husbands are in the military. It can be good and bad at the same time. Sometimes you make great friends who last a lifetime and in other times you don't meet anyone at all because everyone keeps to themselves. Out in town you might meet people in your area and you might not it honestly depends on where you are and what you are doing. Definitely try out the command's FRG - Family Readiness Group it can give you information about the command and help while they are deployed.








    on base there is usually a gym, theater, bowling alley, then there is the commissary (grocery store) and exchange (department store) that are for military personnel and their dependents to use.My fianc茅e is considering joining the Navy, and I was looking for info on base life. Any advice?
    navy housing is hard to come by and not on the actual base its outside of it





    its basically civilian for you since you are a civilian also unless your married you get nothing





    you can apply and get work at the exchange at what not





    once married you will get bah for rent and when hes out to sea for longer than 30 days you will get separation pay





    ship life is hard he will be gone more than he is home. ships o out to sea for work ups and training every few weeks for weeks at a time





    you will be alone a lot one thing to do is get in touch with his ships frg group he will get the info from his command know who your ombudsmen are and how to reach them








    good luck its hard life but well worth itMy fianc茅e is considering joining the Navy, and I was looking for info on base life. Any advice?
    OK WOW living on base is NOTHING like Army Wives!! Nor is all housing or even most housing OFF base. Most housing is on base and depending on rank and or dependent status. If you have a teaching degree that is great. Most of the time the elementary school is on base, and there is a program on every base for spouse employment. I would tell you that getting a job on base is really easy but that is not true sometimes depending on what base you are on. There is a lot of good and bad about living on base. I love my neighbor, I hate the rest of the people on this street!! Just be ready because the Navy can deploy often. It does not always happen but it does happen. As far as living off base you should discuss that later. It will be really hard to do at the first duty station. Check the BAH and what rent really cost in that area. Think about the bills and things like that. If he is just joining you will not be making much money for a while so living on base could be good because you don't have to worry about rent, or living off base in a cheap apartment and you get to keep the BAH.


    I know this because I use to be in the Navy myself and now married to a Marine and live on my third base
    id live off base, youd get more money for housing and more choice of where you live. you can always get a job on base and live off base.





    say you were out with your friends and you had a few drinks, lets just say you cant drive on base with even a few drinks. check points.
    base life is pretty good it is like living in a community but if you are married you may be able to live off base in a town house or whatever you find that the navy is willing to pay.but i think you would have to enlist to work there
    Live on Base if you want to make friends just like you. (first duty station)





    Live off Base if you have no kids and don't care being friends with other Navy spouses.





    Watch Army Wives that show is somewhat helpful
    if you're not married you wont get anything...


    living on base is good, utilities are paid for


    if you choose to live off base then you gt more


    money but utilities arent paid for..

    Is it possible for an adult to get dating advice from a teenage since the adult has never managed to do it?

    My step nephew has a girlfriend it seems, I have never managed it. (I have social anxiety disorder mixed with Asperger's Syndrome, not a good combination.)Is it possible for an adult to get dating advice from a teenage since the adult has never managed to do it?
    I would suggest that you deal with one situation at a time. Develop coping skills to manage your social anxiety disorder and then move on to dating. Mature teens will have good advice for other teens, but if you want a mature adult outlook, seek advice from a mature adult.

    I just need some advice about being married and in the military! please be serious...?

    well. thats a tough one. Its going to be kind of hard to be married and not live together. that is why the military has a higher divorce rate than civilian life. there are benefits to being married though. you get more money and she gets health care. i know people who get married just for those alone. the downside is you always have to worry about Jody. He is the guy sleep with the wives, while the husbands are deployed or in the field. Its something we can't answer here. It has to be figured out by the two of you.I just need some advice about being married and in the military! please be serious...?
    Well think of it this way. In a way it's good to be a part from each other for a while. What will happen to her when you deploy. I know totally different. Deployment is not by choice. but it does help getting used to time apart. Sometimes long distance relationships are the way worth the try!!!!


    good luckI just need some advice about being married and in the military! please be serious...?
    My mother was an army wife for just over 20 years. The thing that seemed to help her the most was the support and friendship of her fellow army wives. My dad had to travel alot in his position within the army and the other wives who were in the same boat all rallied around and supported each other. When one of the guys that dad worked with got injured and had to stay in hospital for a while his wife didn't have to cook a meal for about the first six weeks. There was a casserole or some other meal left on her doorstep by one of her fellow army wives.
    What type of advice? Is it you or your spouse in the military? Was the military one in before you got married? If before, then you just have to adapt to the way things are run in the military. If you were married before the military, it is a whole new ballgame, and can be very stressful and difficult to accept the changes. I have been married for 5 years, and my husband joined while I was 6 months prego and we had been married for 2 years. I've come to accept how things work, but you have to constantly know in the back of your head that you can plan as much as you want, but the Army will mess up the best of your plans. There are several online support groups for spouses online that are really just to chat, vent, and get assistance with things you don't know. You can always contact me with questions about the Army, and I can try and help in whatever way I can.
    Its good, you get housing instead of barraks, more money. But make sure the other is 100% faithful, because there is a HIGH divorce/cheating percentage in the military
    What kind of advice? It's hard, no doubt. You'll end up in some place you never ever wanted to be and you'll have to make all new friends. You'll probably have to run a household alone. The good thing though, is that it will make you stronger than you ever thought you could possibly be. I'm really grateful for that. Saying goodbye never gets any easier, but it makes your time together that more special. It takes a strong women to marry a military man...and an ever stronger one to stick it out for 20 years. Welcome to the club, it's a hell of a ride and you'll love it!
    ok, my sister and her husband were in the navy together, thats how they met, for the past 2 years she has been a stay at home mum now, and her husband only gets to see her every few months, they have a wonderful relationship, it will be hard, she has told me how much she misses my brother-in-law, but they get through it, just means they have a fantastic time when they see eachother, they make every second the best. you can do it, will get easier with time.
    plenty of people get married while in the military! as long as you are truely willing to commit to the person and not fall into temptation, you should be fine. congrats and god speed!
    Well, I used to be in the military and I can say that the only way a marriage would work is if you both have 100% trust in the other person.... There is going to be a lot of times that you two will be seperated, and this times can and will be for a long period of time. And the old saying is still true, ';out of sight out of mind';. If you understand that. There will be plenty of chances that this relationship could go wrong, and it would be in your best interests that you both know each other and are totally trusting of the other for this to work.
    OK%26lt; so what is the question?
    So what is her ';style'; of music? I find that funny
    My wife and I were both in the Army. It worked out fine, we had no problems. Our daughter and her husband are both in the Navy. They make real good money and really like their jobs. Its worked out great for our familys. Good Luck
    Good luck. Tough road to travel. Both of you need to be mature, dedicated and patient. If not, ......
    Your question isnt really clear, but any one who fights for their country deserves a medal of honor.

    Need your advice: I am planning a birthday party for my husband.?

    It will be his 34. Anyway I want to have it at a local bar. I am: renting a pool table and provide food .


    What should I do about the drinks. These guys can drink. So I don't want to pay for all the drinks or all the beer. They don't sell pitchers of beer either.


    Should I just pay for the 1st and 2nd round? Will that be good enough?Need your advice: I am planning a birthday party for my husband.?
    I think this whole idea is a potential disaster. While the odds may favor that everything will go fine, there is the possibility that someone gets in a wreck and somebody gets killled on the way home from the party. Having thrown the party and yet failed to provide a way home for the drunken guests may be enough to prove you liable for bankrupting-type damages. Personally, I would never host a party at a bar and I would never provide drinks to the party-goers.Need your advice: I am planning a birthday party for my husband.?
    put some money behind the bar then when its gone they can buy their own drinks i've done that a few times and it works pretty well
    One of the ways you can limit your expenses in the liquor dept. is to purchase ahead of time from the restaurant, a set amount of tickets . As each guest arrives, hand them 1-2 tickets and their first drink(s) are on you and the rest is up to them. You can also ask if the restaurant has what they would call a 'corking fee', meaning; you bring your own stuff and they will charge you a small amount for opening it there. If a corking fee suits you, you may add to the invitation a 'no gifts please' and BYOB.


    One last thing; go into his classmates.com account and invite people he talks about, but has not done anything about initiating communication.
    If it's at a bar you are not obligated to buy the drinks. Appetizers and snacks would be just fine. Have fun!
    I think you should just stick to providing the food. Anyone that goes to a birthday party in a bar, knows they are paying for their own drinks. Plus you are liable if you pay for the drinks. Actually, you would split the liability with the bar because they should know when to cut someone off. Just pay for you and your husbands drinks.





    Have Fun!
    I think you should have it somewhere where you can buy pitchers or have a pony keg
    Good idea on paying for just the first two rounds. Keep in mind that most of your hubby's friends will buy his drinks, so you know they won't come to the party expecting not to spend money.
    hell No just pay for your husbands drink cuz if folks know you paying they will order the most expensive thing they can buy opps i mean you can buy (get it) so just get your husbands
    Best idea is to choose a different venue that serves pitchers.





    Otherwise, go ahead and buy the first round, plus food. If no one abuses your hospitality by ordering a $25 cognac, go ahead and pay for a second round. After that they are on their own.





    As far as the guest list, try to refrain from being in control on this one. Let HIM decide the guest list. Otherwise you are inviting disaster.





    The good thing about having it at a bar is that you are not responsible for how much the guests drink. The bartender is. And when they get drunk and obnoxious, its not your job to throw them out.

    I need advice what can i do if i suspect my neighbor's are trapping my cats or worse?

    i moved in this house 5 months ago within 5 months 4 cats of mine are gone never to be seen again,3 males and 1 female.(all at different times) my cats were indoor/outdoor.they stayed in the yard and hung out, they wernt old or sick. my daughter lives up the rd from me and her male cat is not fixed and he always comes home.this is why i think its the people next door.they might not like my cats around. i need to know what i can do or can i contact someone.and i have looked in the pound too. please help me! pls no joking!I need advice what can i do if i suspect my neighbor's are trapping my cats or worse?
    Keep the cats inside when they are unsupervised, for their safety. There are bad people out there and you never know who they are, they won't admit it anyway.I need advice what can i do if i suspect my neighbor's are trapping my cats or worse?
    Well, if you had kept your cats inside this would never have happend.





    you need to have control of your cats AT ALL TIMES, keep them on YOUR property and if they are off your property you have to have them on a leash.





    Your neighbor, if he is killing these cats is deffinatly in the wrong for doing that, maybe he is taking them to the shelter so they can find a good loving home.
    It's either kids or pets that cause the most trouble between neighbors. Your cats might be digging up your neighbor's prize dahlias. Since they're out when you're not, it is hard to tell. The neighbors are within their rights to trap the cats and call animal control as long as the cats are on their property. Another possibility is someone else picking the cats up. Sometimes cats are trapped and sold to laboratories for experiments. It might help if you had a ';chip'; put on your cat, or you could keep them indoors. They sleep a lot anyway so probably would get over it.
    There could be multiple reasons --highly aggressive raccoons, dogs (ALL our strays here are deathly afraid of dogs) that wander and attack, owls (great horned owls kill skunks and rabbits, they can kill cats too), kids, and ANY neighbor in a 4 house area is suspect. If you have coyotes in your city, it's probably that....unfortunately coyotes eat household pets any chance they get. We have them in Milwaukee now and they've done a lot of damage here.





    I'd suggest talking to your neighbor over the weekend, just raising the subject that there don't seem to be any strays in the area, do they know what's going on. This keeps you from pointing a finger at them and they might share what they've been doing, if they're the ones doing it.





    I'd also make a report out with animal control, the humane society and possibly the police.





    Your best course of action is to build a backyard enclosure to keep your cats safe. After the second one failed to come home, that should have given you notice to keep them 100% inside in this environment. I'd be heartsick knowing four were missing.
    You know there are other ways for cats to come up missing than your neighbor's doing things to them.


    Like a busy road and wild animals.


    it would be my guess that since you are in a new area that the cats dont know and that you have no proof of anything else that your cats could have been taken by another animal in your area.
    Let your neighbor know your cats are missing. Ask them if they have seen them or seen any dogs around that could have hurt them. Check their reaction-are they concerned or indifferent? Their response can tell you alot. Put up missing signs and let the neighborhood know how much your cats mean to you. Go out with your cats if you let the others out anymore. If you still suspect your neighbor after talking with them mention that ';relocating'; cats is a crime and if any more of your cats go missing, you will have to involve the Humane Society. You have do this tactfully. Make it a statement rather than an accusation. Another suggestion is to go door to door and ask if anyone has seen them. A lady down my street found her missing kitty while walking through the neighborhood. A woman had taken her in as a stray. Finally, if your kitties came up missing at night, You may have a predator getting them. NEVER leave your cats outside at night. I'm sorry about your kitties.
    Definately microchip your cats, that way if they are being sold/given to a shelter, they are more likely to come home to you.
    keep your cats at home in the house where they belong and then you won't have to worry about it.


    i love cats, don't get me wrong - i have 9 of my own


    if my neighbors cat came into my yard, i wouldn't think twice about trapping it. i have asked him several times to keep his cat out of my yard, so he has been warned. i don't want someone else's cat coming into my yard, possibly spreading disease that i could carry in to my cats. they are strictly indoors - the closest they get to being outdoors except for going to the vet - is laying in the window seats that i have set up for them in almost every window in my house.

    Organic chemistry questions...any advice will be greatly appreciated!!?

    Can anyone help me draw these 2 compounds..





    2z,4z hexadiene and 2z4e hexadiene





    thank you for your help!Organic chemistry questions...any advice will be greatly appreciated!!?
    It would be easier to show if we could draw on here haha!





    Anyway, you start out by recognizing that the carbon chain is hexane (6 carbons). Second, you recognize that the ';diene'; tells you that there are two double bonds and finally you notice that the numbers and letters in front of the name tell you where the double bonds are and the stereochemistry. (z) means that the double bond is ';cis'; while (e) means that the double bond is ';trans. So, for 2z,4z, hexadiene, you would draw a hexane chain with double bonds between carbons 2-3, and carbons 4-5 drawing both of these double bonds ';cis';. The second compound would be drawn the same except the double bond between carbons 4-5 will be drawn trans. Draw it out and you'll see it's pretty simple!Organic chemistry questions...any advice will be greatly appreciated!!?
    The only difference between the two compounds is that in the first one, the ';z'; notation indicates that the high priority groups at position two's double bond termini are ';zusammen'; or on the same side of the double bond. (i.e. ';cis'; to each other).





    The ';e'; notation tells us that the high priority groups at the fourth position's double bond termini are ';entgegen,'; or in opposing positions relative the double bonded carbons they have between them. (i.e. ';trans'; to each other.)





    So, the 2z,4z hexadiene would look like this, roughly:





    \__/'''''''''\.





    While the 2z,4e hexadiene would look like this, roughly:


    ~~~__/


    \__/





    *All horizontal lines are double, pi bonds between carbons at 2 and 4 (with those at 3 and 5, respectively)


    *Ignore the little squiggles, they are just there to hold the spaces - only pay attention to the lines.





    Er... just go to the link and open the powerpoint.








    Best of luck!
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  • Is it possible to get a car loan with my current credit status? Please Help me with some advice.?

    I am 28. There are two defaults on my CR rating, both paid. One of these comes off my file in 60 days. I am currently on 55K, and will move to 62K in the next month, and have been fully employed at the same company for 2 years. Currently No mortgage, No credit card and No loans.Is it possible to get a car loan with my current credit status? Please Help me with some advice.?
    I think you're going to be totally fine. Your interest rate might not be great, but car salesmen will approve just about anyone for vehicle financing. Your situation doesn't even sound that bad; you'd probably be ok to get a 10k loan even from a bank if that wasn't such a slow process. I'd suggest putting 7 or 8k down and keeping the extra 2 or 3k in the bank for a future emergency. The dealership will let you know for sure, but I think you'll find the process pretty easy if you're willing to put 33% down on a 20k car.





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    All the best to you.Is it possible to get a car loan with my current credit status? Please Help me with some advice.?
    Yes, but it depends on who wants the business. Car companies because of the economy are almost giving cars away. Since you are 28 I assume this may be your first car since you are not doing a trade-in. I recommend you save your money and pay cash. If you are desperate buy a used car. Most used car companies are looking for get it sold now money. $500.00 used. With your income you can work on a used one yourself if you can find a good mechanic. It can be fun if you are a person that loves making your own accomplishments. Options now in the economy is buy hybrid/no fuel vehicles. Talk to an auto mechanic they give good advice. Good luck!
    How much of a car loan are you trying to get?


    What is your credit score? You have to have atleast a credit card to establish credit.


    You may be able to get a car loan. I can't say for certain. You need to establish credit.

    What was the best advice you got in church?

    My Sunday School teacher spend one service explaining why we should never get a credit card. He taught us to live within our means.





    (The rest of the time, I was being asked to believe a outrageous tale or another)What was the best advice you got in church?
    Why worry about what other imperfect people think about you?





    It's probably the only good advice I've ever gotten from going to a church.What was the best advice you got in church?
    Don't take money out of the offering plate.





    Don't chew the gum you find under the bench.





    Don't wipe boogers on the hand rests.





    Never let wet or loud farts during the sermon.





    No laughing allowed.





    Crying is encouraged.





    Shake hands after using the bathroom.





    Don't color or write in the books provided.
    Absolutely nothing....unless bad advice counts? I have plenty of bad advice from churches!
    Don't make change in the plate as it passes .... it has served me well.





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    To put my faith and trust in Jesus.

    I am taking my first singing lessons ever! Need help and advice?

    I am taking singing lessons on Saturday. I have wanted to sing for a long time, but have never had the courage to do so.


    I am getting really scared.


    What advice can you give me so I am not so nervous? And any ideas on how to warm up my voice?I am taking my first singing lessons ever! Need help and advice?
    First of all, take some nice deep breaths. This will help you to relax. Next, understand that everyone in the class is there to learn, and they are just as nervous as you are. There will be someone there who is better than you, but there will be someone there who is not as good as you in some areas, too. We all learn from each others' strengths *and* weaknesses. Drink lots of water and get plenty of rest. Your voice is affected by everything that happens to your body, so you need to take care of it. On your way to your lesson, continue to breathe and do some sighing. It will open your throat and relax your voice and your nerves. Good luck, and have fun!I am taking my first singing lessons ever! Need help and advice?
    I sing and there is no reason to be nervous...all they do is give you a song and teach you how to sing it. If you worry, you'll o worse..Singing lessons are so much fun!Hope I Helped!
    Remember the other students are there to learn too, so you're all in the same boat. And they are usually very supportive and helpful. Don't drink caffeine before lessons though. Good luck and have fun. : )
    there is no reason for gettin nervous at all.


    u have to enter d class, wish d teacher, answer whatever he/she asks n follow his instructions. that`s it.
    Don't worry. If you have a good (or even an ordinary) singing teacher they will go through warm-up excersizes with you!





    Your singing teacher is the person you can trust to sing badly in front of!
    One little thing that a lot forget - Make sure you're hydrated. Drink enough water to keep your airways open.

    What is the worst advice you have seen given here on Yahoo! Answers?

    I think the worst advice I have seen is the one I just read advising a parent to introduce her young children to porn. And I guess just as bad or not worse are the occasional persons who advise the asker to commit suicide.





    So what bad advice have others seen on here?What is the worst advice you have seen given here on Yahoo! Answers?
    A pregnant woman was asking advice about hemorrhoids and a person told her





    ';Women who go to bed with itchy butt, wake up with stinky finger.';What is the worst advice you have seen given here on Yahoo! Answers?
    I've seen so many bad advice on here, that I can't remember them.

    I am planning a trip to hawaii in jan '09. any advice when to travel to get the best airline fares?

    I am leaving from cleveland going to honolulu. Last I checked about 1 month ago they were about 600 round trip. now they are almost 1000.00. I know flights are going up but that seems like a big jump.I am planning a trip to hawaii in jan '09. any advice when to travel to get the best airline fares?
    You should be able to get the best prices in airline travel to Hawaii anytime from mid January till mid April. That is their slow season if you want to call anytime kind of slow in Hawaii. I would wait till after the summer to really start looking daily for good airline prices. Also, if possible look at flying midweek too.I am planning a trip to hawaii in jan '09. any advice when to travel to get the best airline fares?
    Unless a major airline comes into the Hawaii market, the prices will not be going down in the near future. If you were able to grab a ticket for $600 last month, you should've taken that one while you could beause you're unlikely to see it again.





    The fares will normally go down a bit after the summer rush so logically you should be able to get something a bit more reasonable in October. However, with the monopoly that Hawaiian airlines is creating in Hawaii and the rising gas costs, anything that is ';normal'; isn't true anymore.





    Good luck, happy hunting, and happy travels!
    Prices will come down after college students start going back to school which is typically the first two weeks of January. But because of the loss of Aloha Airlines and ATA, and major airlines consolidating, prices will still be high.





    You may also want to check out http://www.808jellyfish.com/ to see when the jellyfish will be coming to the beaches. Jellyfish hit the beaches on a consistent lunar cycle, therefore you may want to plan your vacation outside the invasion dates.
    Don't worry!! for best airfare please refer to this guidebook, it tells u where to search for cheap airfare. I saved $300 for my flight from San Fran to New York.





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    My bf used to be a heroin junkie,he has been clean for 2 years,but says he is having alot of cravings? advice?

    he says he has alot of cravings and that he hasnt and doesnt want to do it. but i worry that he will relapse. if you have any knowledge or experience please help me.My bf used to be a heroin junkie,he has been clean for 2 years,but says he is having alot of cravings? advice?
    Addiction of any kind is chronic, irreversible and incurable. An addict which has been ';clean'; for an extended, uninterrumped period, and still craves the drug, may again relapse into his/her habit if he/she doesn't get IMMEDIATE help and support. Your bf should seek help RIGHT NOW, or he is in great danger of going back to his old ways. Your support is of extreme importance, as you are the person closest to him right now. There are medications which can help diminish the cravings (e.g. Suboxone, ReVia), but these are only available through some state and private programs, since only a few MD's with special training and licensing can prescribe them. While the patient is on these medications, if he uses even an insignificant amount of heroin, the body goes into an instantaneous and full-fledged ';Abstinence Syndrome';. A friend of mine had this extremely unpleasant experience; he lost control of his bowels and bladder, had excruciating bone and joint pain, uncontrollable vomiting, and became so weak that he couldn't get out of bed for almost a week. This is a powerful detterent to drug use, but phsychological support is imperative, as well as support by friends and family. But, if your BF refuses to seek help, my best advice is that you should pack your things and RUN, if you don't want to end up squeezed out of your last penny, or selling your body to support his habit (which he may force you to do when desperate for a ';fix';).My bf used to be a heroin junkie,he has been clean for 2 years,but says he is having alot of cravings? advice?
    get him into support groups
    That is normal, and he will probably have some level of craving for the rest of his life.





    The best thing you can do to help is to be supportive enough for him to be able to tell you that (which he did) and also to tell you if he slips up.





    Beating an addiction, any addiction, is extremely difficult. By being able to listen to him and to be able to ask him how he is doing in a non-judgemental way (but still getting outside help if need be) and without being an enabler (letting him rationalize that this ONE time is okay) you are doing the best you can.





    In other words, if he says he almost did some, or even if he did do some, don't hey angry and yell. Acknowledge what he did, don't give an inch that what he did was wrong, make sure he sees that it was wrong, and tell him you want to help make things better.





    Ultimately it is up to him, and only up to him, to be able to quit. But having the strong support of someone he loves and cares for is very, very helpful.
    Send him back to rehab or other appropriate treatment. Is he hanging out with new friends? Ultimately, you may have to leave him.
    Get him some help, now before it will be to late.
    Run away as fast as you can.
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  • Is it a bad sign when a guy has trouble giving advice?

    Is it a bad sign if you ask a guy you are interested in for advice on a good gift for my dad, and he says he will have to ask his friend tomorrow and get back to me? Does that mean that he doesn't care to help me? I have been getting the vibe that he is interest in me as well, so wouldn't he want to help me?Is it a bad sign when a guy has trouble giving advice?
    ...jumping to negative conclusions?





    Dont do that!





    lol, especialyl in cases like this





    No, he is genuinely unsure ,,....dont forget, evry family is different as well





    YOu should lok at him as a whole, and more than one thing before you classify him as unhelpful

    Is Rush Limbaugh Able To Predict What Liberals Will Do Next OR Do The Libs Listen To Him & Take His Advice?

    Rush always tells us what`s going to happen, and he is always right. WHY ? Can he see into the future or do the liberals that listen to him secretly value his opinions ?Is Rush Limbaugh Able To Predict What Liberals Will Do Next OR Do The Libs Listen To Him %26amp; Take His Advice?
    He predicts it. But that doesn't make him smart.





    Liberals are pretty simple-minded, so they are easy to predict.Is Rush Limbaugh Able To Predict What Liberals Will Do Next OR Do The Libs Listen To Him %26amp; Take His Advice?
    Apparently Liberals listen to all of the conservative talk show hosts as they always know what they are saying!! That way, they can make up their rhetoric when they come on here and other boards! Without the government telling them what they need to know, they can't make any decisions on a subject!
    I think the Oxycontins have given him a sixth sense. I think his listeners should follow suit and overdose on his sixth sense. Yes. Go to the light. Go to the light!
    He predicts the obvious but pretends that only he knows but puts his own spin on reality. You can get he same information from PBS without the spin.
    Aw man, I love ';Tom Sawyer'; and ';Subdivisions';....oh wait, you mean that ';other'; Rush...
    He is smarter than anything the liberal left wing idiot loons and their 'FOR SALE MSM' stations can offer. Libs are clueless and simpletons.
    Let's just say he can be an extremely insightful individual.
    and after you wake up you find that you have Wet the Bed again, eh.....?
    With Republican's loose grasp of reality, it is easy to make it look that way.
    I can SEE the future





    (I predict I am going to get drunk)





    (or take some kind of pain pills)
    It goes to show that Drug use does expand your consciousness.
    It's like predicting what the media will do.
    I hadn't thought of it like that. Makes me smile.


    Libs following orders from Rush? Right on.
    I think he might have swallowed a crystal ball. He is amazing.
    he is able to do this because liberals are very predictable
    Rush and all his listeners are mean idiots
    Rush scares liberals... just like Palin does.
    what was that you said, limbaaaaaaaaa


    its okay your wool will grow back

    I am an African American woman who experiences slight acne. I am trying to get rid of acne scars. Any advice?

    I've tried cocoa butter, amni fade cream, and I am now using shea butter.I am an African American woman who experiences slight acne. I am trying to get rid of acne scars. Any advice?
    lol. Its so funny im on the phone with you lol.... I think you should exfoliate with cornmeal and honey or use lemons on the darker scarred areas...Hope it works.I am an African American woman who experiences slight acne. I am trying to get rid of acne scars. Any advice?
    Try Mederma. You can get it at any drugstore. It works better than Ambi for me.





    good luck.

    What is the best advice you can give a new author?

    I have been writing for a couple of years now, and sometimes it gets really discouraging. Writing a book is a huge mountain to climb. I know it has been done many times by others, and if they can do it then so can I. But in my times of doubt, what would you say to cheer me up?


    thanks everyoneWhat is the best advice you can give a new author?
    Have something new to say... yes, quite.





    Which is it - best advice or something to cheer you up? The two aren't necessarily compatible. Assuming that it doesn't deter you that most books that are started are never finished, and most books that finished are never published, the best advice I can give is:





    - Some writers plan every last detail before they start writing. Others make everything up as they go along. Most are somewhere in between. None of these is right or wrong, but you need to figure out which approach will work for you.





    - Write something every day, even if it's only a sentence. This is the best preventative I've found for writer's block. By writing regularly, you keep the story fresh in your mind, and you're thinking about it when you're not writing. So when you sit down to write, you have some idea what you're going to say.





    - Join a critique group. They will tell you what your friends and family are too afraid (or too ignorant) to tell you - what's wrong with your book and what you can do to fix it.





    - Don't try to edit as you go along, because if you do, you'll never finish the book. Write the first draft, no matter how rough. You don't have to show it to anyone. If you change your mind about something major halfway through, make a note to fix it when you edit. Let the book sit for a while, to give yourself some mental distance from it. Then start editing.





    - Set a daily or weekly target for how many words you're going to write. If you can stick to it, this gives you some idea of when you can expect to finish the book, which gives you a goal to aim for. It takes me six months to a year to do a first draft.





    Good luck, and don't take it too seriously.What is the best advice you can give a new author?
    Write something every day, be it a diary, a journal, an observation, a conversation overheard at breakfast, lunch, or dinner, an incident at a bus stop, a feeling, anything and everything you see, hear, smell, taste, touch, or feel.


    You'll be amazed at what you have collected in your writings.


    Then one day you will expand on one thought, incident, or feeling and off you'll go--writing like a madman.


    Happens to me all the time.
    1: You need an idea for a story


    2: Have your charaters inline


    3: Figure out how they know each other or how they will meat.


    4: And Have LOTS of fun!





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    Write everyday, even if you are just moving commas around and changing a few little things. Actively work on the book you want to write everyday.





    Good Luck!
    Have something new to say.

    A 57y/o friend is going for a knee replacement surgery. Any advice or online resources to learn more?

    Please feel free to share any online resources that you think will help before and after the operation. ThanksA 57y/o friend is going for a knee replacement surgery. Any advice or online resources to learn more?
    Before I got arthritis, I enjoyed an active lifestyle that included swimming, walking, bicycling.. But when I started getting arthritis, everyday life became difficult. The more I walked the worse it [the arthritis pain] got, the pain was like a knife twisting inside. Sometimes my knee would give out, it just wouldn't support me. Then there was the sharp pain. Before surgery, the pain was absolutely debilitating. I was getting totally disabled. I couldn't walk. I couldn't stand. That's when I decided that I needed to do something. Once at church I met an very old friend of mine who suffered from the same pain as mine and that鈥檚 when she recommended me Fly2india4health Consultants in India , my first thought about surgery in India was fear. I researched on my condition and my possible treatment options. I also spoke with the associate orthopedic surgeon with Fly2india4health Consultants who gave me educational material to help set my expectations after surgery. I was also been told that I would be up the same day as surgery and I was. The most important thing after the surgery is exercise. After surgery, I didn't have to take a lot of pain medication - maybe for 2 or 3 days. I attribute that to the skill of my surgeon. I was driving two weeks after surgery, Had I known it was going to be this easy, I would have had it done much earlier. If u need any orthopaedic care I will certainly advice you to go to Fly2india4health Consultants!





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    http://www.fly2india4health.comA 57y/o friend is going for a knee replacement surgery. Any advice or online resources to learn more?
    If your friend is obese, loose ALL the weight first or it's a guaranteed failure.
    try to have it at a teaching hospital !

    I have been dizzy and gross feeling for a week, I need advice?

    I have a 6 month old, work full time and just keep going. I have been feeling real sick, weak and dizzy. Is this just from being run down? I have no other symptoms I do not want to run to my doc like a lunatic. Can sleep deprivation cause all this?I have been dizzy and gross feeling for a week, I need advice?
    Absolutely - if you can - ask someone you trust (spouse, mother-in-law, friend, neighbor) if they'll watch the baby for a few hours. (If you're nursing-pump a bottle) - Tell them you're feeling bad %26amp; are exhausted - that you will be at home - but are turning off the phone (do it) - and will call when you get up. Eat something healthy - even a bowl of cereal, drink a glass of water (in case you're a little dehydrated) - Take 1/2 of a Tylenol PM (tablet) - so you can sleep without dreaming - (should last for 3-4 hours) - darken your bedroom - and take a nice long nap -- You should feel a million times better when you get up -- take a long shower - eat a small meal ( to keep your blood sugar up) -and drink plenty of water throughout the day. Tylenol PM has the same as Benadryl in it - you may be feeling dizzy if you have fluid from congestion in your ear. Dehydration and low blood sugar can cause the ';yucky'; feeling also - Hopefully, the decongestant, sleep and hydration will have you feeling better --I have been dizzy and gross feeling for a week, I need advice?
    Have you had your blood sugar and/or blood pressure checked recently? Your blood sugar could be low, or your blood pressure could be too high or low. Being that you have a six month old that you're responsible for, I would suggest erring on the side of safety. Its better to run to the doctor simply to find out ';nothing is wrong';, than to ignore it simply to find out ';something was horribly wrong.';





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  • Brits only please. Is there somewhere adults can go for careers advice like we used to get in school?

    I really could use some advice on what my options are and what courses I should be looking at as a mature student hoping for a career change. Is there somewhere that offers this service (not the job centre, unless they've changed drastically in the last 8yrs)? Prefferably I'd be looking for free advice in central London.Brits only please. Is there somewhere adults can go for careers advice like we used to get in school?
    don't go to connections. they. are. ****.Brits only please. Is there somewhere adults can go for careers advice like we used to get in school?
    The careers advice people in the UK are there to give advice to adults too. They don't discriminate. Also, you can go along to college or university open days for ideas and advice.
    Go to your nearest college and ask to speak to the careers advisory officer. They will tell you what courses they have available to your needs and what funding you can claim.





    You may need to go to university depending on how far you want to go, but the basic NVQ structure should be in their curriculum.
    I would try connexions to be honest.





    Alternatively go back to job centre plus (I think adding the plus on the end is probably the drastic change of the last 8 years!) and give it a shot.





    To be honest I have no idea how good either of these places will be but I would give them a try if you havn't been in a while.
    Try Connections, it offers career advice, and then shows you what routes you can take.
    I'm not a Brit... but you can meet with an Academic Advisor at any university and they'll help you out and give you information about faculties you might be interested in and such..
    If you only want Brits to answer why don't you go on the UK site?